The Perfect Relationship? /February 14, 2014

The Perfect Relationship?  

I don't know many people bold enough to claim they are in the "perfect relationship", yet when you step back it becomes apparent that all of our relationships are in fact perfect. Our relationships are continually providing us with all of the information we need in the moment to make the appropriate choices.

As Eckhart Tolle says "Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness " and life can be thought of as a series of relationships.

It is only our expectations and illusions about relationship which put us in opposition to our experience in the moment. We may stay in dysfunctional relationships because  our attention is on the illusion as opposed to the moment. Similarly we may miss out on potentially amazing relationships for the same reason, dismissing present time cues in compliance with the illusion.

One of the characteristics of the current awakening of consciousness is more and more people seeing through the consensual illusions to reveal a deeper, more personal truth, and often the restrictive doctrines of relationship are early victims of this new awareness. 

This does not mean that relationship as a concept is dead, but it will evolve alongside consciousness. If, as increasingly argued, we are moving away from the third dimensional conditional structures  into the unconditional fifth dimensional state, successful pairings will be based more on two wholes co-creating as opposed to two parts seeking completion.

The best demonstration of this lies in the example of the noble gases, a group of five elements in the periodic table who share the condition of a stable outer electron ring. This characteristic means they do not seek out union with other elements to achieve stability. The rest of the elements are continually seeking partnership to achieve stability through chemical reaction.

What is interesting is that those five elements although stable will still engage in relationship, and when they do combine, they create something remarkable, one example being Neon light! It appears that when a partnership occurs from a place of wholeness or stability something special arises!

Once again the message is to focus your attention on yourself to achieve stability rather than looking externally, and your relationships will naturally form with those who create the space for you to achieve that stability. Those relationships will be amazing.

The new benchmark in relationship will be:

I love me when I'm with you.

Happy Valentines Day

Bill